Friday, April 12, 2013

From Dad


Dear Jeffrey

            I am so glad you have joined our family.  You bring so much joy and happiness to my life.  My life keeps getting better and better.  First I got your mom the girl of my dreams. Next I got Meriden, my chunky monkey, and now you my little Jeffie.  I feel honored to be your father. 
            Jeffie, I want to let you know how amazing your mom is.  She is an elect lady and you are one lucky dude to have her as your mom.  She went through a lot hard times to have you.  I am thankful she was willing to go through every thing she did to get you here.  She carried you in her womb for 9 months.  At first you would take all her energy and make her feel sick at night.  As you got bigger she got diagnosed with gestational diabetes.  To make sure you grew healthy and had the right sugar levels she had to control her diet and not eat any yummy food.  She had to eat the same kind of food day after day, just meat and veggies.  To monitor her sugars she had to poke herself 4 to 5 times a day to check her blood sugars.  The last two weeks she couldn’t eat any carbs at all.  If she did her blood sugar would spike.  She didn’t eat any carbs so you could come home from the hospital soon and not have to stay there for weeks. 
            On top of all that you kept kicking her and making her uncomfortable.  I don’t blame you, it must have been pretty cramped in there.  Your mom was very uncomfortable a lot of the time.  Her back hurt and she couldn’t go hiking or do very much fun things.  I am so grateful for her sacrifice to get you here. 
            When you decided to come out early it didn’t give mom enough time to get an epidural so she had to birth you naturally.  An epidural makes it not hurt as bad when you are coming out the birth canal.  We were trying out our new tent trailer at Lincon Beach Campground and mom started to get contractions.  We thought they were fake like we had with Meriden.  At 3:30 AM we decided to go home so mom could take a shower and relax.  The contractions didn’t go away and at 6:00 your mom woke me up and said the contractions were real and you were on your way.  We got to the hospital and the nurse said it was too late to get an epidural.  Your mom was so strong and brave and pushed you out all by herself and felt you the whole way out.  After you got out the doctor had to push on mom’s belly to make the uterus clamp down so she would stop bleeding.  He had to do it over and over.  It wasn’t fun for her because it hurt a lot. 
            Now for the next 6 weeks she has to heal and get better.  Like I said earlier she went through a lot to get you here.  I am proud of her and grateful for her sacrifice and all she went through to get you here.  Your mom is an amazing woman.  She is very brave and loves you and me so much.  I love her so much for getting you here.  We are going to have a lot of fun together.  Mom is really fun.  She will take good care of you your whole life.  We are both lucky to have her.



Love Dad

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